Behavioral Challenges

How can you tell the difference between challenging behaviors and emotions that are a normal part of growing up and those that are cause for concern? In general, consider seeking help if your child’s behavior persists for a few weeks or longer; causes distress for your child or your family; or interferes with your child’s functioning at school, at home, or with friends. If your child’s behavior is unsafe, or if your child talks about wanting to hurt themselves or someone else, seek help immediately.

Young children may benefit from an evaluation and treatment if they:

  •  Have frequent tantrums or are intensely irritable much of the time  

  • Often talk about fears or worries

  • Complain about frequent stomach aches or headaches with no known medical cause 

  • Are in constant motion and cannot sit quietly (except when they are watching videos or playing video games)

  • sleep too much or too little, have frequent nightmares, or seem sleepy during the day

  •  Are not interested in playing with other children or have difficulty making friends

  •  Struggle academically or have experienced a recent decline in grades

  • Repeat actions or check things many times out of fear that something bad may happen Older children and adolescents may benefit from an evaluation and treatment if they:

  • Have lost interest in things that they used to enjoy

  •  Have low energy

  • Sleep too much or too little or seem sleepy throughout the day

  • Are spending more and more time alone and avoid social activities with friends or family

  •  Smoke, drink, or use drugs

  • Engage in risky or destructive behavior alone or with friends